Why Do Women Like BDSM Lifestyle

If you are not familiar with the term, BDSM its a contraction entailing three sex-linked word pairs: bondage-discipline, dominance-submission, and sadism-masochism. This might sound like quite a handful, pretty far outside the ordinary. However, it is not as extraordinary as may think. Actually, quite many women love BDSM. Don't be sure that every woman in your life has never fantasized about some form of BDSM has not fantasized about some form of BDSM at least once in her life. Just go on and ask the women you know well, and you will be surprised at the results. So, let's look at why do women like the BDSM lifestyle.

Exploring BDSM or Fetishes Sexual Uncertainty

One of the primary reasons why a lot of women love BDSM is to experiment with control. Having control over her life or her body taken away can be very exciting for woman who want to be a submissive. Most women love the fact that they do not know what is about to be done to them, and they don't have a way to stop it. Actually, the subdued can always use a safe word to stop the act, but the emotional effect will linger. The fear and uncertainty that sets from giving up control is a powerful feeling. It is similar to the thrilling feeling of watching horror movies. People love watching horror movies because, to a certain extent, getting scared is fun.

Freeing From Responsibility

On the other hand, many women find that surrendering control to the dominant man as a freeing experience. By this, it means that responsibility and freedom are two sides of the same coin. But while freedom feels good, responsibility tends to be taxing and stressful. By giving up the freedom to dominate in a BDSM scene, a woman feels freed from responsibility and hence unbound from the stress that comes with it. As long as they are being controlled, they don't have to worry about any responsibility for a shed of time, making them feel a lot better.

It Feels Empowering

Some women love to be dominant in BDSM dating. BDSM puts the woman in charge of her man, her body, and her relationship. For them, they love the empowering feeling of being granted control over another person's body or life. Women love to see the man slut for them; they crave the real reactions as they punish, hurt, or penetrate him and are turned on by being the Dom. For them, the act of having power over their man, and the fact that the submissive partner is willing to submit to them gladly is exhilarating and satisfying. Also, the act of being tied down on a bed makes the submissive woman feel like the man cannot keep his hands off her. He only wants her very much that he only wants to ravage her. This is the highest form of power over a man.

Fulfill Their Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy is another reason why women engage in BDSM. According to sex-related research statistics, a significant percentage of women fantasize about engaging in BDSM either as a dominant or a submissive. More than anything else, the act of fulfilling and acting out a fantasy is fascinating. Anyone who has ever participated in stage acting knows how fun it can be to act out a fantasy. Role-play and fantasy are the most common forms of BDSM because of its obvious appeal. It's not surprising that lingerie stores sell sexy costumes.

Pain Enjoyment

Some women like BDSM as they enjoy pain. This aspect plays a part in both the fantasy and control aspects of BDSM. A BDSM scene often involves the dominant punishing the submissive partner for some reason or others; it's just fantasy. Some women get turned on and enjoy the feeling of pain and being teased. For example, you probably have seen a BDSM scene like a naughty student and teacher. The submissive acts as the naughty student and is physically disciplined by the dominant, acting as the teacher. There are other variations, but I hope you get the point.

Trust and Security

Trust is one of the common themes in a BDSM relationship. In a lot of ways, all BDSM scenes exercise utmost trust between the partners. For women acting the submissive role, they see it as very romantic to trust the other partner so profoundly that they are willing to entrust their life to them. The submissive trusts the dominant to go on too far but not extreme and protect them from being harmed. For the dominants, women find it intensely moving to have a partner in your life who is willing to that kind of trust. Romance and trust have always been closely related, and in that respect, BDSM is not very different from actual marriage as the partners trust each other with their lives.

Strengthen Their Relationships

There might be a lack of sexual passion between the man and the woman due to routine in a relationship. For such couples, a way to produce the same neurotransmitters occurring during the initial stage of their relationship is doing something on the edge or new sexually. Some women introduce BDSM in their relationship to find sexual excitement again by changing the sexual routine. The most fantastic perk why women enjoy BDSM is role-playing. When done correctly and safely, the roles and bondage give a total escape from reality. More so, it is an excellent form of creative expression that sparks the creativity within us while adding flavor to your sexual relationship.

Conclusion

If you or your partner are into BDSM, it can be one of the most exciting and pleasing sexual experience. The most important thing is being in control of when and how to engage in it. Define submissive sex to your partner; whether this means begging him to penetrate you, wearing a leash and collar, being held down, and so on. There is no shame in your BDSM game. Find out what you love, express it to your partner, and offer your partner and yourself ultimate pleasure.

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